This blog post is dedicated to everyone who knows someone or is someone who is overweight! Firstly i would like to say, despite any appearance there is at least 2 people in this world that loves you. Today i was talking to friend who has a friend that is overweight. Lets call this guy Max. Well Max feels that being overweight is going to kill his chances of getting girls or getting a girlfriend. Or in other words, Max has no confidence when it comes to girls. I am sure Max is not the only one that feels this way.
Well, there are many people who are overweight. Am i right? In alot of people's eyes, they see fat people as bubbly cute and always being happy. i regret to inform you that most of them are just putting up a strong front or they are trying to cover something up. I really do not understand why Overweight people are feeling this way. Maybe its the media? Maybe its the mindset. We should not be treated differently. Is it bad to be big? I do not think so. What are the differences between a fat person and a skinny person. Its just the weight. I know being fat is not good for the health but that does not mean we must lose weight to be loved right? that really is not fair.
WE GET MADE FUN OF. WE RUN THE SLOWEST DURING ANY PHYSICAL TRAINING. WE EAT MORE. i do not know what is wrong with all that!
honestly, my advise is be who you are. Never be shy about who you are. If someone loves you, they have to accept you for who you are. If you want to lose weight to have a better health then yes thats good. but if you are losing weight to attract the girl then FUCK YOU!
People should never discriminate someone for being fat! If you mean it as a joke then i mean it is really okay. but not everyone likes the fact of being fat.
Also true friends accept you for being fat. true friends accept you for who you are. if you categorise your friends by who is fat and who is skinny, then also FUCK YOU! It is really not a bad thing to be fat.
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Being responsible for something. If you made a mistake admit it. if you make any wrong decisions learn from it. Do not avoid it and do not push the blame. Only cowards do that. They are afraid of punishment. But these are the consequences of making mistakes its really normal for someone to make mistakes. It is that individual's responsibilty to own up to any mistakes!
And also if some confronts you about a mistake be apologetic. Do not be arragont and show that you are not sincere.
In this world we are living in there is alot of give and take. We seriously do not have any choice. We have to give even at times when we do not feel like giving. This term give and take can be used in alot of things. From reltionships with a spouse/girlfriend/fiance, to family memebers or maybe even friends. We can't just be taking all the time, it will not be fair. You have to put yourself in "other people's shoes" Why bother? People may ask. Bother cause the fact that people around you is willing to give why can't you show the same amount of love they show you by giving and you give back. Just make sure that you dont't give the wrong things at the wrong time.
Being who you are is easier than being someone else, so why go through the hassle of being someone else when you can actually be yourself?
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